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Offline jmd

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EW 6mo advice please
« on: July 09, 2010, 06:13:54 am »
Hi there,

This is my first post so bear with me! Isabela is a happy angel/textbook 6 1/2 mo who has been on the baby whisperer routines since birth. She is an excellent eater and generally an excellent sleeper but I have an EW issue we cannot resolve so advice please.

She goes to sleep between 1900 and 1930 each night. However recently has been waking between 0515 and 0545. She is making quite a bit of noise but is not crying. She appears ready to start her day. We have ruled out hunger. We have ruled out too much day sleep. I have tried W2S (4 days so far) but no success. I suspect it may be a habit brought about by the 6mo growth spurt when she did start waking at 0330ish on and off until the morning until we resolved the food issue. She used to sleep regularly until 0645 - 0715ish.

I also suspect that I have been a bit fast getting in there previously as when she started getting mobile she would hit her head against the cot and get her limbs stuck between the bars so I did start going in there at first noise. Now I don't, I wait and only assist if she is upset or has limbs stuck etc. When I do assist I do the minimum - give her the dummy, give her her muslin she sleeps with and maybe quickly pat her back or head. Often she will re-settle but it is not for long. I never feed her before 0630. If she wakes at 0530 between then and 0630ish I will go and assist her perhaps twice. She may sleep lightly but the rest of the time she will be babbling, squealing (happy), rolling around, kicking her legs against the cot etc. By 0630ish when I get her up she is pretty grumpy though.

During the day she usually goes down for a nap between 0830 and 0900 which is the longest I can reasonably keep her up as I aware too early daytime naps may rob night sleep. For the last two days she has been sleeping for over 2 hours for those naps. On those days she just takes 2 shorter naps (30 mins) to get her through. Average day sleep would be about 3 hours. On days when she only gets 2 hours total it doesn't mean she sleeps any longer. Also I often go for a walk with her around 7 for 45 mins and recently she has been crashing out on the walk so I don't think she is waking because she has had enough night sleep. We have been doing this for months so is not a new thing and she does not normally sleep.

It seems the only thing I could do is tweak her day sleep however I really feel like I know her well and I put her down when she is tired. However willing to do it if there is a solution in sight.

I wonder if this is just a phase... She went through a 'only sleeping for 30 min nap phase' during the day and she just seemed to grow out of it. She is a very active, involved wee girl so maybe things are just a bit interesting now for her to want to sleep at those hours! Lol

Your advice would be much appreciated.

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Re: EW 6mo advice please
« Reply #1 on: July 10, 2010, 11:57:28 am »
i'd like to follow your post and responses as i'm having a similar experience with my 5 month old. :)



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Re: EW 6mo advice please
« Reply #2 on: July 11, 2010, 05:54:02 am »
Hi there,
How are you going with it? Funnily enough the day after I did the post she had a big day sleep - total 4 hours and then she slept until 0620. She had woken around 0400 but went straight back to sleep after I gave her the dummy. However this morning same again she woke at 0530 and she would drift off to sleep for 10 mins then be awake again until we gave in around 0645. We are planning to do PU/PD if she is crying or won't take the dummy. However seems happy to take the dummy but won't sleep properly from then. It really seems like she has had enough sleep but then a few hours later she is obviously tired and in need of a good sleep. Sigh! I realise it is only about 45 mins - an hour I am after but it makes so much difference! :-)

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Re: EW 6mo advice please
« Reply #3 on: July 11, 2010, 09:33:34 am »
Hi!!  My 10 month old is doing the same thing (and has for 2 months now).  She wakes up between 5.00 and 6.00 every morning.  She used to sleep until 7.  It is killing me!!  You are right that 45 min can make such a difference!  My LO isn't crying either, just waking up ready to start the day.

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Re: EW 6mo advice please
« Reply #4 on: July 11, 2010, 14:22:14 pm »
Hi all!!

I'm experiencing the same problem! my 6 mth old has had the ew problem since his 6 month growth spurt and has started waking beween 4:30am-5am -previously sleeping until 6:30am and as you are all experiencing its so tiring!! Like you I have ruled out hunger.  His routine in the day is excellent but falls down when he wakes.  I wondered if anyone had any success?!

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Re: EW 6mo advice please
« Reply #5 on: July 15, 2010, 17:37:01 pm »
Dear all,

Here, another mum with a 6,5 month old. who is waking at  05:30 every morning for the last 2 weeks. It used to be 07:00, but that's changed unfortunatley. We've tried the wake-to-sleep method too. Once 3 times in a row and this morning we started. so we'll try it for the coming 2 mornings. I'm also going to black out the windwos the evening as I was wondering whether it could have to do with the it getting light (yes, I'll try anything). I'm curious ot hear from any mum's/moderators who have tips to try out.

Oh yes, my LO seems perfectly happy when she wakes. 

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Re: EW 6mo advice please
« Reply #6 on: July 15, 2010, 17:43:46 pm »
Hello - yet another tired mommy to add to the list of 5am wake-ups!!

Have you ladies seen this FAQ? - http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=163926.msg1829182#msg1829182

I am currently working through the various solutions as I have no idea if he's waking as a result of A-times needing tweaking, OT, UT, hunger, etc, etc!!!  ??? ???


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Re: EW 6mo advice please
« Reply #7 on: July 18, 2010, 18:51:02 pm »
Hi SS Thanks for the link. I'm going to have a look at it.
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Re: EW 6mo advice please
« Reply #8 on: August 08, 2010, 00:00:22 am »
Hi All,
I hope you are going well. Good news is that my LO has resolved ths issue. She has been waking between 0645 and 0730 for weeks now. Honestly I am not sure if it was something I did or whether she just grew out of it. I did follow that really useful early waking information and kept a good eye on her activity time before bed and ensured she wasn't going to bed too early. Now she has between 2 and 3 hours day sleep and sleeps for 12 hours at night. So if she has had only 2.5 sleep I usually put her to bed at 1830 instead of 1900. It is working really well and I feel so much better! I hope it is all the same for you. If not - I hope this gives you hope the end is close!
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PS - One thing to mention - we went away on holiday and her routine got a bit thrown out, when we got back was when she started sleeping later. Part of me wonders if the shake up to her routine broke her out of her habit...? Not as sensible as those early waking tips though! :-)

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Re: EW 6mo advice please
« Reply #9 on: August 10, 2010, 13:00:29 pm »
Hi everyone, jmd so glad everything worked out it gives me hope. There are a few threads on this site about EW's around 6-8 months so I am really hoping this is just a phase and my DS will grow out of it. We had tried so many things but will read the EW info again to see what I missed. It is funny how when they are first born we survive on very little sleep but for some reason these EW's seem worse!

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Re: EW 6mo advice please
« Reply #10 on: August 10, 2010, 23:49:53 pm »
Totally agree it does seem so much worse! All the best. :-)