We had a great Easter dinner with my mom and dad. Lyanna is really starting to love them! My mom comes over once a week, and Lyanna has really warmed up to her now that she sees her more frequently. It helps that my mom just hangs back and waits for Lyanna to engage with her...Lyanna will even reach out to her to be held
Had some issues with in-laws though...My MIL said to us that the second baby is ALWAYS more laid back because you make mistakes with the first one and change everything with the second. Somehow in a roundabout way implying that we have created a baby that doesn't like her grandma, lol, so ridiculous. My MIL also seems to have taken the approach of "I don't care if you get upset, I'm going to hold you/talk to you/get in your face anyway". It seems my MIL is pretty stubborn and believes that my baby needs to change to suit what she wants...We haven't told her yet that Lyanna is much more stubborn than she is
She also keeps asking when Lyanna is going to sleep over at her house...I told DH that a lot of things need to change before I let that happen! Especially since MIL told us she would just put DH in his crib when he was crying as a baby and let him CIO. Can't even imagine my little girl getting put through that, because when she cries, you know something is bothering her, so letting her CIO just seems so cruel.
I laugh about it all now, but I was pretty furious at the time, and had a bit of a cry when we got home. Anyway, we're lucky we have my parents that we could vent to about the whole thing, and they are so supportive of how we raise our child. I even heard from my hairdresser (who also happens to be my moms hairdresser) that my mom tells her what a great mom I am! So nice to hear after having to put up with all the veiled criticisms from my MIL.