Hi all,
I'm wondering if we're hitting this regression too?? DS was doing fine on his mini-morning nap/long pm nap routine, he'd had some days where he only slept 10mins in the morning but we figured out a good pm nap time that worked in that scenario, and he'd done some 1 nap days (both nap refusal and intentional). We were hoping to get to the clock change and start 1 nap days at the childminder's then, since we thought he'd effectively be waking up later and so he'd be able to get through till about 12:30, the earliest she could put him down (she also looks after a 2yo so they need to fit around each other).
So as I said it was all going well for that until he got ill
Actually we all got ill
And so he kept waking at night in discomfort, and gradually got more and more tired... and now we're certainly in OT territory
He's never been one to crash when he needs to, he just will not switch off and despite me putting him down early for naps/BT (when he's clearly tired) he just will not settle - rather like Catherine's L, we do the same, although we can't stay too long or he'll get distracted from the task of trying to sleep and start chatting! And, like her, he used to be such a good independent sleeper who STTN'd. But now we get EW at stupid o'clock and he just won't go back to sleep
And settling at BT/naps, which used to be within 5-10mins max, is now taking 30-60mins
But he's better now, there's really no reason I can see at all for this, other than OT... and ok, OT has never been great news for him, but he hasn't been this bad since he was about 4mo! I'd almost forgotten just how horrible it is! So do you think we're hitting the 18mo regression a bit early?? Or do we likely still have that 'joy' to come? We have no props at our disposal, even if I try bf-ing to sleep (which I last did on the plane at Christmas), in my experience I have to stay absolutely still and not even think of putting him down, and even then he'll only sleep 30mins max. I am so desperate, you know how when you've been ill you also badly need a good night's sleep, and I'm rapidly losing hope that this will ever happen
Right now, he's tossing and turning and babbling and moaning, breathing way too fast to be settling down, and it's 1h since I PD'd for his 'nice long' nap
Ok sorry about the rant, guess I had to get that off my chest! And he's just got to sleep so I guess I should be glad about that although I'm not optimistic about how long he'll stay asleep... Oh and we've got guests tomorrow so it will be pretty rubbish if he's like this again (which is likely) - not exactly very sociable to spend lunchtime going in and out to him, and going to the loo almost always wakes him (creaky floorboards) but you can't exactly tell guests not to go during his nap! Aaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrgggggghhhhhhhhh!!!