I think Oliver is starting to recover from his illness now. So much for secretly hoping, I knew this 'routine' & plenty of sleep would be short lived lol! Last night after having had a 2hr nap 1-3pm, he took 30mins to settle at BT, asleep 8.25. Had to wake him just after 7am this morning for work. He napped 1-3pm again..... and lo & behold he's chattering away up in bed again & its now 8.20pm. And this, even after having a shorter night last night - you'd think he would be tired right? I'm 100% certain its not OT either.
I honestly don't like to ever wake her in the morning or from a nap...I never really have...I just feel like if she's sleeping she needs to be...the only time I found it helped and did do it on occasion if I really had to was during a transition of dropping a nap.
I honestly wish I could do the same as I HATE waking O. I actually think though, that part of this 18 month 'regression' is a natural drop in sleep needs, & I also think its the very very start of the 1-0. It seems that while some kids will keep their nice long nights & cut back their naps naturally, others will keep the lovely long nap but at the expense of their night. We are one of the latter.
So I think since this is the very start of our 1-0 & Oliver is cutting back on his nights, I don't see where else we can go except to intervene & cap his nap shorter again.
Oliver is already doing a 6hr A time in the AM & napping at 1pm, and BT is already at 8pm so I don't want to have to do a later BT, especially when I have to wake him at 7am on work days. So I think since this is the very start of our 1-0 & Oliver is cutting back on his nights, I don't see where else we can go except to intervene & cap his nap shorter again. I think I am going to trim it back to 1h 45mins from 1pm, but keep the 8pm BT. What do you think ladies?
(((hugs)) Stardust - I can totally relate since O is touchy too. It is so hard but I think that you are right - half the battle is letting go a little & allowing them to gain some independence for themselves. O was much the same - came everywhere with me, & tbh he still often comes if I go upstairs, but he does it of his own choice, climbs up by himself & entertains himself while I take a shower/ go to the loo etc. He is also getting better at waiting for me in a different room. If I go upstairs but shut the door to the stairs behind me leaving him downstairs he totally freaks, but if I leave the door open he is quite happy to come & stand at the stairgate & wait while I go up. He can see upstairs & chat to me etc & he's not shut off on his own. I think you'll find over the next couple of months as her speech improves you will find she'll gain so much more independence.