Hi again, can't catch up with you completely I'm afraid - I blame it on M not getting to sleep until silly o'clock leaving me with very little evening... and naps haven't been so great on days when I'm at home with him either... so I'm back on again for a quick moan before giving up on this present nap!
Claire - hope things are going better again now? I really hope that day comes soon when M's sleepy again! At the moment (ok for the last couple of months at least!) he's just been so hyper and still finding it really hard to wind down, I just don't know what to do, I try putting him down a bit earlier if I know he's really tired, but he still doesn't get to sleep until around 8:30pm nowadays, and that's way too short, especially when he wakes early around 6:30 - not all the time, but too often for my liking! So today he was actually still asleep at his usual get-up time and I made the mistake of letting him sleep 10mins longer, so I woke him easily at 7:25 and went for usual nap time at 12:45... slept about 1h 10min
I only let him sleep longer as he had got himself into one of those silly OT loops where he was sleeping less and less well the more tired he got... now that's backfired horribly and he'll be so OT if I aim for his usual BT but will most likely take at least 45mins again to settle anyway and blah blah blah...
I'm beginning to wonder about trying for a 1pm nap now, we've only just moved it to 12:45, capping at 2:30, but it doesn't seem to have made any difference to the time he gets to sleep at night, it just means he gets more OT as he's getting less daytime sleep?? So now I'm not sure, do I try stretching him longer in the morning, keeping the 2:30 nap end time and hoping that it will finally make a difference to his night sleep?? Or keep to 12:45 for a bit longer and hope that something improves? It does often feel like the cliche mistake of doing the same thing again and again and expecting different results! But then I never really know whether it's routine/teething/development. We're suddenly getting lots of words now and he'll wake early from a nap or night sleep going 'tick tock, tick tock' - he's really into Hickory ory Dock at the moment! So I'm wondering if it's not even routine related but he just has lots on his mind... really no idea what to do about that though!
So anyway, sorry for the one-sided rant, I'm afraid I don't feel like I have any advice to offer whatsoever at the moment, since nothing's working for us