Welcome to the craziness, creations!
Well, after an unpromising start to the 1pm nap, on Sunday he woke at a reasonable time (can't quite remember when) and things seemed better for a while:
7:15 got up
1pm nap
2.45pm I woke from nap
8pm PD, 8.15ish asleep
Then uncharacteristic NW 1:30-2:30ish (putting it down to teething), then slept until...
Monday:
7am woke, not exactly happy, prob still tired after the NW
7:15 got up
1pm nap
2:45pm woke from nap (childminder)
8pm PD and straight to sleep!!!!!
today:
6:30 woke (urgh), again not so happy, don't think it was enough sleep
7:15 got up
1pm nap (short cry out around 2ish)
2:30ish woke and couldn't get back to sleep so got him up 2:45
7:50 PD (bit earlier as I didn't want OT, don't think he was at that time but...)
8:45 - DH has just gone in to reassure, he's still not asleep and definitely OT now
So I guess we just have to stick with this 1pm nap until he settles into it before we really know where we are. Then of course we have canines flaring up again and a sudden change in weather (has been cold and wet for weeks, today suddenly 26C - the joys of British weather. no wonder we're always talking about it!) so who knows what's to blame?
Sara, I'm sure I did read someone else's post about getting alternate long/short nights, but can't remember who or where, sorry! We tend to get one good night and at least a couple of weeks of short nights before the next freak/fluke good one!
Stardust, hope you see some improvement in DD's mood and sleep soon, I'm sure you need all the rest you can get!
Claire - does that mean you've reached some consistency now? Thanks for the reminder not to try and push BT back together with the nap, makes sense to keep it at the same time, and I really don't want that time to be after 8pm. Looks like we're aiming for something similar to you at the mo, ie our day on Monday above, so with the nap 15mins earlier than yours. But I'm guessing that was a big fluke! [just read your last post as I was about to post this - have to say I'm impressed with O's language! We're finally getting a few attempts at single words now, which is really exciting but I guess they all just do it in their own time
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Thanks everyone for posting your woes/advice on here, helps me feel less alone in this and it's kind of reassuring to know that other LOs are doing similar things and that I'm not the only mum who thinks about it way too much