Oh, how I wish there were still phone consults. I was one of the lucky ones back when Tracy was still with us and my firstborn was about 3 months old. Things are better now that my kids are older, but there are STILL times when I just want to call someone and have them sort it out for me!
I've learned that a lot of what made out lives a living hell nap-wise with the kids was reflux, teething, and separation anxiety, coupled with super-Touchy (and possible developmental delays) for one and super-Spiritedness for the other.
Looking thru FAQ's was helpful for me. Even though the Search function doesn't work for most of us, I think mods can still access it, so by all means you can ask a moderator to help you find posts about a particular topic. And letting others take care of your baby is HUGE; I wish wish wish I had had the opportunity to let others help out, but we're so far from family and have no close-by friends so it was just us.
Hang in there - we'll help out as best we can!