Yes Bfing - i tried doing the last feed as a df but she didn't really settle at 6 so yesterday she went 3.5 hours between some feeds so our day went -
6am feed
9.30am feed
12.45pm feed
4pm feed
6pm feed
7 bath and feed and bed - she settled so well here on her own that I think I am going to go with this - I was a little worried about 6 and 7 feed being so close together but I winded her well and she wasn't unsettled then at night.
I went to bed at 11pm last night and she was beginning to stir - she may not have woken for another hour but I decided to lift her and feed her so that i could get a block of sleep - she then woke at 2.30am and again for the day at 5.45am!
DH is out tonight so first night putting two kids to bed!! I like the bath at night time as DS always gets one and when DD is a little bigger they will bath together!
I just read the Breastfeeding and EASY - I have been feeding 8 times a day so that is good and up until yesterday I was waking her every 3 hours to feed except at night - she usually does a 4 -5 hours stretch and then 3 hour slots after that.
I guess I just like to have an idea of where I am in the day for feeds etc - yesterday I dropped DS off at playschool and then she was due a feed so I fed her in the car - it was like 45 degrees outside and we were in the car with the air con full blast - not ideal! also had to put blanket in the window to cover myself from the passers by esp in a muslim country!
Once i know the general running of my day I can plan around all this! plus in my life I am a little organised