Hi all, I haven't posted on here before but have seen all the useful advice and tips that you share and was hoping that you might be able to help me. I have a nearly 5 month old son who did a fabulous stint of only waking once a night for about a month when he was about 3 months old, since then it has being going downhill! We now seem to get two or three wakings a night (depending on when you view the night ending!). Also daytime naps are pretty rubbish too, he'll only sleep for a max of 45 mins at a time and I can't seem to get this any longer unless we are out in the car.
I started following the EASY routine when he was about 2.5 months and it seemed to be going ok although we tend to end up with EASAE as his sleeps never go up to the next feeding time. As an example this is what yesterday looked like:
7.15 awake
7.50 Feed
8.45 Asleep
9.15 Awake
9.50 Feed (also doesn't seem to go three hours between feeds very well anymore - was doing this at 3 months)
11.15 Asleep
11.45 Awake
1.00 Feed
2.15 Asleep
3.00 Awake
3.50 Feed
5.10 Asleep
5.35 Awake
6.25 Feed
7.15 Into bed, took a little while to settle but was asleep by 7.30
8.30 Woke - gave dummy and he went back to sleep
9.45 woke - dummy didn't work (at this point DH had to call me to come home as I was out (for the second time ever!)
10.30 Feed
1am Woke - gave dummy and back to sleep
2am Feed
5 - woke - gave dummy and back to sleep
5.30 Feed
7am awake and that was the start of today
So, he does have a dummy and we would have absolutely no chance without it, I did used to think that he woke because the dummy had fallen out but sometimes I go in when he was woken and its still in his mouth so don't think it is that, although it does sometimes work to get him back to sleep. Generally he goes down to sleep well at night, he goes into the cot awake but sleepy (and of course with the dummy!) and goes off to sleep quite well and usually within about 10 mins. Naps are a different story and I often have to rock him to sleep, sometimes when that doesn't work I then have to put him in cot as he is fighting me too much to rock him, this then takes him a little while to calm down and stop wriggling but he will eventually go off to sleep - during this time I am outside door going in and out to put dummy back in, sshhhh a bit, stroke head etc until he finally goes to sleep.
I know this isn't the worse sleep situation and I really sympathise with others who are having a rough time as well but if there is anything obvious you think I am doing wrong or could do differently to help get a better nap and nighttime situation I would be very grateful! Its especially depressing when friend's babies of the same age are sleeping through 7-7!
Oh - he is EBF and also I don't change his nappy in the night (not sure if that's relevant! he never poos overnight).
Thanks in advance!