Hi again,
well first of all HUGS AGAIN! This all can be so frustrating i know.. But it is so important like mention by bluegreenorange to be consitent.
The shh/pat may not give instant results! I remember how exhausted i was from doing it but i made up my mind and stuck with it, after days of doing the exact same shh/pat routine for all naps and sleep time it started to show progress! Itīs not an overnight thing. I stayed most of the time at the house for two weeks in order to have him sleep in his cot at all naps and sleep time!
Also, if you keep changing the routine (places to sleep and ways put to sleep) The baby notices the change and that can be confusing. For intant, if you donīt always put him to sleep in his room that can be a part of why he cries the times you try.
Buttom line is E.A.S.Y. is FAR FROM EASY! But it sooo worth it. If you think this is something for you and your child, you gotta make a decission and simply stick to it no matter how long it take, eventually it will work, thats a promise!!!!:-)
To answer your question:
Whatīs left to try is consistensy!! It works!
Again CIO is NOT an option unless you īre asking for trouble!!!
Yes it is normal to have regression and there will come times when he ll get sick, teething, travles etc. things that will mess up your routine and you ll have to start over again, but for each time it will get easier as the baby will be familiar with it.
Changing the routine is the worse you can do, then it is actually better to co sleep or whatever else you wanna do as long as you keep doing that all the time!!! So itīs about thinking ahead in time and knowing what you are investing in!
I can tell you this, my 14months year old selfsooths to sleep every single time. He loves his crib and to sleep. But he has never co sleeped with me and i was always having the same and still do have the same rituals for sleep!! he knows I mean business and he knows of nothing else so he doesnt ask for anything else.
He also has been through teething, sickness, travels etc. where we have gone routine wonky but we have menaged to get back on track each time with a little bit of work, never as much as it took me the first time!
I recommend you to truly think about all of this, read about shh/pat:
http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=26671.0Hope this helps!!