First, can you start offering her first milk feed in a sippy rather than the bottle. She may take it whether it's a bottle or not b/c she is thirsty/hungry and wants the milk so may not care whether it's a bottle or a cup. If that goes well after awhile, I'd try to delay it little by little until you start offering it with breakfast. You may have to do it super gradually depending on how upset she is, but you can always see how it goes.