Hi all,
When I did the questionnaire somewhere on this forum I got between Touchy/Spirited/Grumpy, but I'm not sure if that's just because of the reflux, and am confused! Please help??? My boy is 13 weeks old.
So when it comes to feeding, he's very difficult, he fusses a lot, he's impatient, gets frustrated easily, very picky with the type of teats (we've had to go through about 5 different bottles/teats to find one that he likes!) and you have to be quiet when you feed him otherwise he starts crying (although he's better with me as I'm the main one who feeds him).
When it comes to activities, he always seems fidgety, he prefers just to look and listen and doesn't really interact with his toys. He loves sitting in his walker (although he can't touch the floor) and watch the tv, and when there are any lights about he loves to look at them but seems to get bored and over stimulated very quickly! We have to constantly encourage him with his toys, but he just doesn't seem interested in them and sometimes he just cries at the sight of them!
Sleep: From birth he wouldn't sleep on his back and had to be put on his side (because of the reflux) but wouldn't sleep too long. Naps where non-existent! He seemed to refuse to sleep! Then I started co-sleeping and it seemed to get better for a while, but would only sleep when on my or my husbands chests or in our arms! But I wasn't getting much sleep at all, so tried him on his tummy and he seemed to sleep a lot better! Now on EASY he seems to be getting better and better at naps even though if he gets OT it takes so long to get him down. He refused his afternoon sleep or catnaps and NW are about 2-3 times (max) a night instead of every hour or two!
In general: When he was born all the midwives and nurses said he was very exaggerated, animated, vocal and impatient, he would scream and scream as if it was an inconvenience to be outside the womb! He wants things now, not in 20 seconds, 2 minutes etc, but NOW!!!!!!!!!!!! When he gets worked up, he gets really worked up and it's almost impossible to calm him down, he goes bright red and gets very very hot and then gets cranky about being cranky. Sometimes I have to hold him tight and shush/pat/rock him until he's calmed down. He hates car rides, his car seat, his pram, baths (we have to shower with him), nappy changes etc. Bright lights, loud noises, new people etc seem to really bother him. For eg. he finally fell asleep in his car seat, then daddy opened and closed the door and he screamed and screamed as if you just dropped him or something! But under all this, when he's needs are met and he's not over tired/stimulated he's a really happy baby. He loves to talk to you, babbles on, gives you big smiles and gives you the most adoring looks it melts your heart!
Hope someone can offer me some insight!
Thanks