i have a 4 month old DD, and i find it impossible to get her to settle from night wakings without feeding her. She's still usually waking up to feed once a night, even with a DF, but if a loud noise or wet diaper wakes her, i always feed her to get her back to sleep. i don't nurse her to sleep, she goes in the crib awake, but it's the only way i can get her back to sleep. although i haven't tried any other options very hard!