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Offline Danielsmommy

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Have I spoiled him or is it something else?
« on: March 07, 2011, 23:12:04 pm »
Hey there, My DS will be 11 months on wednesday and has been waking between 5 and 5:30 the past few mornigns and not going back to sleep.  I am still tired so I take him in my bed and cuddle and rock him to try and put him back to sleep.  It used to work but does not anymore.  He has also just started sleeping better at night, getting up 3 or fewer times instead of a million.  So my question is, have I spoiled him and he's now used to coming to bed with me (even though he won't fall back asleep), does he feel now that he's sleeping better, he's had enough sleep by 5 and is ready to wake or is it something else?

Here is his "routine" lately give or take 15-20 mins

5-5:30 wakes and we lay in my bed until 6
7:00 bottle
8:00 solids
9:15 nap usually 1 1/2 to 2 hours
12:00 bottle and solids after
2:15ish nap 1 1/2 to 2 hours (sometimes during this nap he'll wake after 45 mins.  Sometimes I can rock him to sleep in his chair, other times I take him in my bed and get him to sleep for another 1 to 1 1/4 hours
5:00 supper
6:30 Start of bedtime routine - bath, story bottle
asleep by 7:20-7:30  (He still falls asleep while drinking his bottle)

Thanks for any advice and/or suggestions.

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Re: Have I spoiled him or is it something else?
« Reply #1 on: March 07, 2011, 23:21:58 pm »
He may be at the very start of the 2-1 nap transition. It's early for some but both mine were single-nappers at or by 11 months. I think there are some threads and links about it in Naps FAQ's....

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Re: Have I spoiled him or is it something else?
« Reply #2 on: March 08, 2011, 13:14:33 pm »
I'm confused.......  Since I'm a first time mom I don't know a whole lot - why do you think he may be starting to transition from 2 to 1 naps and how will that help with the EW?  I guess I need to be educated here lol

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Re: Have I spoiled him or is it something else?
« Reply #3 on: March 08, 2011, 15:59:53 pm »
His second nap is getting short if he's waking after 45 minutes more often. When he gets to the point where he's taking one longer nap mid-day, his night sleep can be shifted as well.

See here: http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=95670.new#new

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Re: Have I spoiled him or is it something else?
« Reply #4 on: March 08, 2011, 18:44:21 pm »
Thanks :)  There is so much info on all these boards it's going to take me forever to read it so thanks for the link that gives a lot of helpful info in the mean time :)