Oh I am so sorry to hear that Jen
This is a very tough situation. I really hope you get through to her soon.... so you can bounce all your worries and questions off someone. I can imagine it wis getting extremely hard to mentally keep up the diet with DH now wanting to go to neocate and her having a flare.
Does the paed want to do further investigations/testing? If they don't signficantly improve on the higher doses of the PPI they usually suggest a swathe of tests.
So do you think she reached a baseline of stability, and is now flaring or is her pain and smyptoms still uncontrolled?
I do know that many a sensitive bub thrive on the neocate. I have to admit alot more joy has come back into my life now that I am off the diet