well he has gotten 3 teeth in 8 days so i'm sure that's not helping the situation

love all the ideas, thankyou so much. will def look into cream cheese/cottage cheese and sour cream to see what he'll accept and tolerate as hard cheese is typically more easily tolerated with dairy issues.
havent done pizzas as he cant have tomatoes due to salicylates sensitivity

but i could make some dodgy low sal veggie spread to put on it and then cover it in cheese.
tried a slice of edam cheese today and he sat with ds1 who was eating one too, some success in that he put it in his mouth, bit pieces off, ate a small amount but then spat most out

am about to try the horrible processed cheese sticks, lol, as they are really soft and i will smear some vegemite on it first in hopes of getting him to at least put it in his mouth...
just find it so weird that he wont eat it as ds1 would eat it several times a day if i let him!
jenny, with the yoghurt i did store bought, vaalia banana toddler yoghurt was one of very few i found that is salicylate free. 1 tbs for 2 days, 2 tbs for 2 days, 4tbs for 2 days and then the tub (5tbs)
thanks again
