Sorry to tag onto your post but my situation is very similar - with DS waking between 3am-3:30am each night, and needing to shh/pat him 2-3 times over about 45mins and then he sleeps until wake up.
DS is 5 months, only feeding in DF. Our EAS looks like:
E- 6:30 (doesnt usually have a lot to drink 90-120mls)
A-7-8:30
S- 8:30-10:30 (usually does full 2hrs, at worst does 1.5)
E- 10:30 (150mls)
A- 11-12:30 (incls having some solids)
S- 12:30- 2:30 (often have to shh/pat after 1h15 - usually goes for 1.5hrs, sometimes 2hrs)
E- 2:30 (150-180mls)
A 3-4:30
S 4:30-5 (usually 30mins, sometimes 45mins)
A 5-6:30 (imcls solids and bath time)
E: 6:30 (180mls; can be quite fussy at this feed but wont take it as a split feed anymore)
S:7pm
DF at 10:30
These 3am/3:30am moanings seem to be getting worse - he settles fairly well with pat/shhh, but i dont know if he is using that as a prop to get back to sleep. If we just leave most times he then starts to get lloudder and wakes up fully. Its almost as if I knw i am going to be going back and forth b/w 3-4am, and then he will sleep again til about 5am, stir, but puts himself back straight away.
i am just not sure about w2s since there isnt an exact time. suggestions/thoughts???
Thanks