I don't even know where to post this! There are so many issues going on here that I can post here, in "night wakings", in "solid food", in EASY, etc. Feel free to move if necessary.
Basically, long story short, I have a 12 month old former refluxer who has never been the greatest eater. She never loved her bottle. She ate solids with enthusiasm but since we're pretty much off purees, its been a challenge. She's probably no more picky than most babies her age, but since she doesn't eat dairy (that's another story) we're limited as to what we can give her; that's a whole food group I can't explore just now. She will eat WHAT she wants, WHEN she wants. If she's not hungry, she won't eat. If she's not liking what's offered, she won't eat. Our "schedule" is very hard to stick to at this point because of this.
The major issue, and this is why I'm in "bottle feeding" right now, is that she's still getting up often for night feedings. I consider this a bottle-feeding issue moreso than a night-waking issue because she will go right back down after being fed. I feel like since she's a difficult eater during the day, she's getting up at night hungry, being fed, and going right back to sleep. Her sleep is not really being disrupted tremendously, but OURS is, and I'm pregnant now and totally need my sleep

I also feel like at a year old, we should be way over these night-feedings, no???
I just don't know how to get her to eat more during the day, when she seems to have her own agenda.
PLEASE HELP!