Thanks. Looking forward to talking to your friend!
Julia has never been Failure to Thrive, she is around the 50th percentile. BUT she IS highly allergic. My diet has been very strict (potatoes, rice, root veg, pears, chicken and lamb) but I have never been able to reach a baseline. She improved but still only catnapped, was up loads at night with wind and there was always mucous in her poo...
Would so love to go on breastfeeding but I'm not quite sure what else I could eliminate from my diet... Part of me really wants neocate to work. I think I have to give it a trial. Just want her to feel better! It's a terrible feeling though when I feed her from the bottle and feel my milk letting down. Or when she is crying and I can't feed her but have to run to get the formula ready. And she is wondering why I'm not responding to her promptly like I used to.
It further complicates things that I also have a young toddler who is only a year and a half and he has been very jealous the last week or so. Probably senses that my focus is on Julia and my despair that I have to stop breastfeeding - it really is pretty much consuming me... So awful. I completely understand what you're saying, Vicki about this being a very dark time...