Yes, I have an unwilling tidy-upper too

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Maybe it'd be helpful if I put down the things that he currently does...
Has just started getting into the pushchair by himself, and clambering up into his carseat
Can help get himself undressed, but not dressed at all - only shoes
Puts shoes away, and his clothes in his drawers sometimes, goes to find his shoes etc
Will do fetching and carrying jobs for me - but nothing consistent
He'll tidy his toys away into the right trays - again, not consistently
He struggles with physical stuff like getting dressed, but I realised today he is more than capable of sorting out his own cereal if I was to lay the things out in advance, so it's stuff like this I think I should work on
