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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #15 on: June 14, 2011, 08:28:50 am »
I'm guessing OT at bed.  I would have her in bed by 6.30/45pm if she is waking at 1.30pm.

Perhaps work on 4.5-5hrs after nap wake up?
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #16 on: June 14, 2011, 13:46:52 pm »
I will try that today Laura Thanks,  and Lo woke up BEFORE 7am, just not cranky, starving.
So I'll do nap at 11am again and bt at 6:30pm, Lord I hope this works.
 


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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #17 on: June 14, 2011, 13:54:47 pm »
Good luck!  I'll keep my spare fingers crossed for you! :)
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #18 on: June 14, 2011, 14:35:41 pm »
Hi.
I've not really an advice, but just to say that DS has done the same the past two-three weeks, and he's now 18 months too. So, I also think that it's 18 months sleep regression. We had long time to go to sleep in the cot, and also EW, and, as a consequence, short nights (til 9.5 hours, one night only 8 hours!). These affected naps as well, they went from 2.5 h to 1.5 h. I've also tried every routine changes, and nothing happened.
From yesterday, things seemed to improved a bit, so hopefully we are going back to normal.

I'm convinced that it is development. For example, for naps and BT, we have been put him in the crib and walked away for months, but since one month or so he's calling us when we leave the room: not crying, only calling. We just stay out of the door saying our sleep phrase, and after a while he eventually goes to sleep. It seems to me that he's trying to stay up more because he would like to play/discover/try more and he's testing his limits.

I know it's difficult, as I was very stressed last week, but I think that we have not to worry too much and wait that this phase passes.
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #19 on: June 14, 2011, 15:45:23 pm »
Well your the light at the end of this tunnel for me barbara78 !!!!
 


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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #20 on: June 14, 2011, 21:02:12 pm »
Glad to be useful for you lilybug25! :-)
I'm only trying to rationalize what's happening all the time, and I know it's hard!! But reading other's posts can help A LOT!
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #21 on: June 14, 2011, 21:04:17 pm »
Being rational is not a strong point right now and having a OT cranky toddler when I'm OT myself is making it harder.


Well I put Lo to bed at 6:30pm on the dot and it took till almost 10pm for her to fall asleep. Thats a new record, 3.5 hrs  ::). I had to go in once as she was jumping on her bed I talk firmly to her after laying her down and she cried for a minute then continued to play. I knew she wasn't hungry or to wet or in pain ( I gave meds 30 mins before bed). So I treated it like a battles of wills. When she became very loud or started kicking the wall I went to her door and said " lay down it's time for bed". over and over again. She would get quite then when I would walk away she would mantra cry for 5-7mins then go back to playing. I did this till 8:30pm ( when the jumping on the bed happened) then just ignored her playing and mantra crys and took a bath till she finally passed out. I hope tomorrow goes better and tomorrow night isn't so bad. HOw can a 2 foot 6, 26 pound child almost do me in is beyond me?
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #22 on: June 15, 2011, 11:10:06 am »
Hi there..

Jumping on to offer some {{Hugs}}!

Just to clarify, is your LO teething at all (sorry if this has already been asked)? It definitely sounds like she's very OT but from what you've described it does sound like there may be something else unsettling her?

How long is she napping for during the day?
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #23 on: June 15, 2011, 17:36:52 pm »
Hi lilybug.  My DS1 used to do this whenever he had a language explosion.  He couldn't shut his brain off and would spend ages staying up late and just talking.  So I would think it is 18mo sleep regression as well, it happened to us at that age too.  It did pass, hang in there!  :)
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #24 on: June 15, 2011, 19:42:23 pm »
Sian- Lo usually sleeps 2 hrs at nap time, lately it's been less today was almost 2 hrs and woke up happy.
 


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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #25 on: June 15, 2011, 22:22:39 pm »
How was it today?
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #26 on: June 16, 2011, 01:31:37 am »
Very long, we got home just 20 mins ago and she went from being fine to super cranky, ot again. So bt will be in the next 10 mins max. DH is putting her to bed as I type this. She was fine almost all day.

 We had a total breakdown 10 mins after dh layed her down which DH went right back in and rocked her till she calmed down then left the room. Then two 2-3 mins mantra crying jags then nothing, been quiet for quite a while now and it's 9pm! ;D ;D ;D
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #27 on: June 16, 2011, 11:16:23 am »
How did your night go?
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #28 on: June 16, 2011, 11:44:02 am »
Sounds good Lilibug.
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Re: No matter what I do nothing is working
« Reply #29 on: June 16, 2011, 21:12:27 pm »
Lo was woken up by the ppl downstairs once at 2am but quickly settled back down woke up right before 7 am happy, she also slept from 11:30 to 2pm this afternoon again woke up happy so maybe we are coming to the end.