Thanks for all your advice! Ok I guess I'll probably pump when I get home unless I'm too tired... or maybe try dreamfeeding again, but I'm a little hesitant to do this as he's not been sleeping so well at night recently (2-1 + 18mo + clock change etc...) so I don't want to risk him not being able to settle again afterwards! And if we do end up weaning the morning feed at some point then I guess I can still offer one if we missed the previous evening? I'm not pushing that any time soon though...
Interesting question about supply - as I said I've no idea really how much he's getting, I certainly wasn't able to pump anything when I tried in the first few weeks (before going back on the mini-pill at around 6 weeks), so I know that pump yield isn't a reliable indicator for me. I then tried again around 6mo with success, but that may have been whilst simultaneously bf-ing (couldn't have managed that at the beginning!). For the next few months I was able to pump 5-6oz at a time and assumed that this was his usual amount, since he'd take that from the cup on occasion and not seem to want any more. Now at BT, as I said, it's more like 3-4oz if it's from the cup, but he apparently doesn't seem to want more than that so I'm not sure whether that's what he usually has from me, or whether he's just settling for a bit less? Does anyone else have any idea how much their toddlers are getting at the BT feed? I'm kind of hoping that his solids are more important now, so that the actual amount of breastmilk he gets doesn't matter too much? I'm afraid I gave up on cow's milk as a drink during the day, but he does have lots of yoghurt and milk-based puddings. But is there still a need to try to increase my milk supply? I guess I've been considering his bf's as a 'bonus' now rather than something to try and maximise... so I just let him stay as long as he wants (unless I've pushed his BT too late and he's dropping off!) and hope that what he's getting is adequate?
As for migraines, I suspect these latest ones have been hormonal but, having had them about once a year since before puberty, and not at all during pregnancy or during the first year, I wondered whether dropping the daytime feeds might have caused some sort of hormonal change that could have affected me in that way? It's not a big deal anyway, I haven't had them for a couple of months now, I was just curious!