Thanks Martina. I cannot bear to not feed him if he's hungry - he's so so SOOOO loud and I don't see how I would settle him. If he's hungry he's not interested in his dummy or cuddles - he's almost frantic. And the meltdown if you don't feed him quickly enough can go on for a couple of hours - and it shreds my nerves, I can't stand it. But I'll definitely reduce the size of the bottles as much as possible, as well as offering water first. I think he is having a growth spurt. He is eating a little bit more each day - slowly, slowly, very slowly.
Thanks again!
xx