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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #45 on: June 23, 2011, 17:05:16 pm »
Hi mukta,
I think you should stick with the CN for a few days and give it a little time.  It could take a few days for everything to sort itself out.  I think some of my biggest mistakes have been not giving new strategies/techniques enough time to work and getting discouraged if things didn't change immediately.  I have hope for you that the transition to 1 nap will help tremendously, so see what happens.  (((Hugs))) -- it is very frustrating.

I would also try W2S -- I haven't really done if, but lots of people say it works, so it can't hurt.  

I can relate to living in hope that they will sleep through! It will happen --and then you will feel victorious...and well rested!

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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #46 on: June 23, 2011, 17:37:45 pm »
I think some of my biggest mistakes have been not giving new strategies/techniques enough time to work and getting discouraged if things didn't change immediately.

Yup.  I think you have to hang in there kid.  Clearly the teeth are ramping things up so I would stick with the 2 naps until you have your technique going well (GW) and then try to move him on to 1 nap when a) your technique is working better for you and b) some teeth are through.
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #47 on: June 23, 2011, 18:04:20 pm »
thanks for drumming senseand patience into me
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #48 on: June 23, 2011, 18:07:02 pm »
it is REALLY hard to have patience when you are sleep deprived, so hang in there! you are doing a great job!
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #49 on: June 23, 2011, 18:52:26 pm »
(((hugs))) mukta!  I agree, you will get there, and will get some sleep one of these days too!  :-*
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #50 on: June 23, 2011, 19:12:06 pm »
My LO did that up until about 15 months, perhaps later, and then went through more wobbly stages as her sleep needs kept changing. We had the same no. of NW and also very loooong ones like your describe and wake-ups of 5am. It was torture and did indeed drive me insaine. And she was a independent sleeper - could put herself to sleep after a NW IF she wanted to and wasn't in pain.
Two things I found - she is actually low sleep needs and dropped to one nap at about 11 months, v v occassionally had two naps but hardly at that stage.
She's now on one nap at 22 months and just under an hour with an 8 /8.30 bedtime. A 2 hr nap resulted ina  10pm bedtime - ouch.
Anyway, waffle waffle, it did and does get better. She does have wobbly bits when her naps are too long and she wakes for hours and EW then so I have to be brutal and cut them.
Then again, she's pretty hardcore and can fight sleep in even a carseat and a pram, so is a bit of an enigma!
It gets better, ours improved a lot after 18months xx

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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #51 on: June 24, 2011, 17:57:45 pm »
How was last night Mukta?
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #52 on: June 24, 2011, 19:25:14 pm »
I think some of my biggest mistakes have been not giving new strategies/techniques enough time to work and getting discouraged if things didn't change immediately.


totally agree as well....especially where Oscar was concerned. Emma's been a little easier, have to admit ;-)

Hugs and hope its going ok x


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« Reply #53 on: June 24, 2011, 20:02:55 pm »
Just hugs Mukta, keep going sweetie it will get better :) xxxxxxx
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #54 on: June 24, 2011, 20:40:07 pm »
ha another rubbish night. the 11-3 patch seems to be the worst.

BUt and I dont want to jinx it, if I get to him early enough/sleeping on his floor or rushing in he only needs a pat at times to get back to sleep...so maybe there is progress??

he woke at 3 so i thought it would reset and be W2S but no luck he was up at 4:45 and DH had to get him to sleeo again :(

oh he had a 20min CN and then a 2 hr nap today so maybe progress??
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #55 on: June 24, 2011, 21:37:42 pm »
You have to start somewhere!!
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #56 on: June 24, 2011, 22:10:10 pm »
You have to start somewhere!!
can't believe I messed up 2 of them ;)
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #57 on: June 24, 2011, 23:20:10 pm »
You have not messed them up!!!!!!!!!!!
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #58 on: June 25, 2011, 01:32:50 am »
I agree, you have not messed them up at all!!  Some LOs are genuinely tricky sleepers and give parents a run for their money, it is not anything that you have done! 

I think that's pretty good progress so far.  :)
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Re: I have almost no choice but CIO :( can anyone give me 1 last try?
« Reply #59 on: June 25, 2011, 23:01:15 pm »
It will get better and it will pass. My friend lo is two and a great sleeper now and he was THE worse n bf to sleep at least six times a night with  5 am wake up. He's does ten hrs straight at night now n three hr nap!!! It will get better I promisexxx