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Offline Rachel600

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Need more sleep advice re 13 month old
« on: July 15, 2011, 07:30:23 am »
So DD2 is now 13 months old. I had great advice from here when she was 11 months old, she was feeding in the night a lot and sleeping in my bed in the early hours of the morning. She now doesnt do that and I dont take her out of the cot until the first feed of the day. Since that posting she also has had 4 top teeth coming through so I have taken the bad nights on again as a result of the teeth. But now Im back to feeling desperate again as she wakes only once (which is still so much better than before) but then stays awake for 2hrs.

She tends to wake anytime from 2am to 4 am, there isnt a particular pattern. I dont take her out of the cot and say lie down, soothe her back down and say night night etc. So she tries really hard to get back to sleep for 2 hrs. But within that 2hrs she obviously gets frustrated and starts crying. Eventually she does go to sleep, around 5 30 to 6am but by this time dd1 is awake. Its every night that this is happening and I need a break as Im struggling in the day as I have dd1 and Im supposed to be doing paperwork for my dh business, dh doesnt really help at all except a bit on Sundays i cant even think straight anymore.

Her routine varies as sometimes she has 1 long nap at 12 30 until 2 30. Or she has 1 nap around 10 to 11 and then 3 until 3 30. Whatever she does in the day her nights are always the same.



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Re: Need more sleep advice re 13 month old
« Reply #1 on: July 15, 2011, 11:07:30 am »
Hi there...

Sounds like she's going through the 2:1 transition.

Can you post your current routine so we can take a look?
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Re: Need more sleep advice re 13 month old
« Reply #2 on: July 15, 2011, 13:01:34 pm »
Hi

her routine varies depending upon her night sleep. so ive got two routines for her:

two nap routine if she wakes early or is really tired by 10am
6-6;30 wake up
bf then breakfast
10am nap
11am woken up as if she sleeps any longer then she wont have a second nap
12 lunch
3 to 4 nap - woken up by 4 30 at the latest
5 tea
6 bath
7-7 30 bed

she puts herself to sleep for allnaps and bedtime.

one nap day
7am awake bf breakfast
11 45 lunch
12 ish nap time
2 to 2 30 wakes up herself
5 tea
7 to 7 30 bedtime

today is a one nap day. but she was up at 4 30am and didnt go back to sleep until 6am. she woke at 6 30. then resisted any sleep until 12 45 and then only had 35 mins. i put her in her cot at 12 10.



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Re: Need more sleep advice re 13 month old
« Reply #3 on: July 15, 2011, 13:11:31 pm »
Continuing - dd2 just pressed enter for me!!!

And thats following a one nap day the day before. She slept 2hrs at lunchtime yesterday and I was sure she was going to sleep until 6. Theres always hope isnt there.

Its so hard to know what to do when she wakes up and she tries so hard to go back to sleep but just doesnt. Soemtimes her arms and legs are just flayling around all over the place. Its like she just cant relax. She has always coped extremely well on little sleep. Its so strange as dd1 needed loads of sleep. They are such opposites.

Tonight is definately going to be bad as she definately hasnt had enough sleep in the day and she will be exhausted. Im aiming for a 6 30 bedtime for both girls.
Thank you



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Re: Need more sleep advice re 13 month old
« Reply #4 on: July 15, 2011, 14:42:32 pm »
Unfortunately, until she fully transitions to one nap sleep can go wonky & it's generally a case of trying to ride it out the best you can until she can handle enough A-time to consistently cope with 1 nap.

Has she got any teeth coming through? At around her age 1st molars can start bothering LO's?
Sian