We have now been to the doctor and her ears are clear - thank goodness! He checked her over and said that she looked just fine to him
Of course, she was super happy and smiled her face off at him the whole appt! When I told him about her lack of appetite, he said not to worry as long as she is taking something, just keep offering her favorite things to get her interested and wait for her to ask so that she doesn't get frustrated with it... so I will just stick to her regular meal times and let her take what she wants... and I am just gonna let her sleep when she wants to for a few days... even if it means night feeds and lots of wake ups...
He said that as long as she is happy and easily amused and not lethargic and sleepy all the time, no need to worry
PHEW! Momma feels much better!