Please please help me, I'm so fried and desparate! I have been nursing my 3 month old dd to sleep in a recliner and sleeping with her on top of me for a couple of weeks now. She used to take good daytime naps but now wakes up early from her first nap of the day and after that won't sleep unless she has my nipple in her mouth. Since I can't even come close to establishing an EASY pattern, I will just report what's been going on. This is the typical day lately:
Today she had about 10 hours of sleep next to me in the recliner since about 10 last night. She had a dreamfeed at 2:30 a.m. and 6:10 a.m.
8:50 diaper change
9 breastfeed
sitting and talking with mom & dad, tummy time, laughing, swaddle, sit, cry/rooting
9:40 breastfeed on our bed
10ish shush pat, put in crib, cry, pick up, burp, put down
10:15 - 11:00
11:00-12:00 shush pat, pu/pd, left when quiet, just stares ahead or cries when leave, shush/pat seems to keep her awake
12:12 breastfeed on our bed, still swaddled
12:15-sleep on breast if I try to pull out my nipple at any time, she starts sucking again
12:35 my nipple falls out of her mouth (deep sleep?)
12:55 dd wakes when I get up
dd sits & talks with daddy, smiles a bit, tummy time
1:50 dd starts crying, rooting
2 breastfeed in recliner, dd drinks a lot
2:11dd sleeps at breast and stops drinking but if I attempt to remove nipple she roots frantically
2:30 nipple falls out of dd's mouth (deep sleep?()
2:55 frantic rooting/eyes open, nipple in, suckle, sleep
after 20 mins, nip fell out but she woke up when I talked and is still awake now after quietly staring ahead in her crib and then crying