So sorry you have lost soy again. It is difficult but you do get used to it. James used to be very limited in his diet as he reacted to lots of different foods. It is great now that we only have to avoid egg, dairy and nuts but thats only because we used to have to avoid so much more. James recently passed a peanut challenge which was great, not that it has opened up huge amounts of options but it is just one more food we have back.
For a long time James used to have baby rice mixed with neocate and apple and pear puree added. This was something James was still having when he was 2 years old.
Pancakes are a great idea for something different especially as you don't avoid egg or wheat which makes it much easier.
You could do egg with crumpet or bagel.
I am glad that your lo has started accepting the oat milk again on her cereal as that makes things a little easier for you.
Kelly x