My son isn't spirited (I think, I've not done that quiz thing for ages and he came out as Angel / Textbook which definitely ain't right) but quiet things I do with him are reading, cuddling, playing with wooden building blocks (letting him build is much quieter than when he's knocking down), going in the garden and looking at the plants and smelling the herbs. We sometimes look at pictures in a small album of family but that could be a bit too much for a spirited one?
Sorry, those might all be daft ideas?!