Hi ladies
DS is almost 13 months & up to now has been a fairly good eater.
We have recently started to have quite a few struggles with mealtimes in that he won't eat anything except one or 2 choice meals. Things he used to eat no problem he is now refusing. He doesn't like me spoon feeding him much these days (except at breakfast time where he doesn't seem to mind at all

), & so I have been encouraging him for a while to use the spoon himself (which he's been doing) but he wouldn't even do that today. And this isn't just limited to spoon-fed meals either. He's refusing a lot of his finger foods too. Chicken, potato & veg dinners that he used to wolf & now he won't touch, & so on. I keep ending up falling back on toast or pasta, which he gobbles up no problem most of the time. But I can't just feed him that all the time, its not nutritious enough! I'm actually wondering if he's starting to learn that 'if I refuse this, Mummy will give me toast/pasta' - can he do that at his age

And if he can, what do I do

Just give him nothing

Then I worry he'll be hungry & start waking at night for milk. Anyone been through this/have any tips

P.S. He is teething ATM, but I don't think this is related to the teeth cutting as its been going on for quite a while now.
TIA.xx