Hi everyone!
I am the mom of a 20-week lo and have been back and forth on trying to extend his naps. He goes down easily for naps after a little dancing wind-down, white-noise machine, swaddle and paci but only stays down for 45-60 minutes. I would like to extend his naptimes to start getting him on a 4-hour EASY but I am starting to wonder if 45 minutes is his biorhythm like Tracey points out for some children. He seems to fit the profile because he has always had this schedule, he wakes up happy and has happy activity time for 1.25-1.5 hours after his wake-up.
The trouble is that 45 minute naps make staying on a 4 (or even 3) hour EASY very difficult. If I do eat, activity, sleep and don't try to extend then he is eating every 2.25-2.5 hours which I know is too much! On days when I have painfully extended his naps with shh-pat and PU/PD, he definitely eats better so I would like to extend his feeds but not sure that his naps can really be extended.
So, a lot of rambling for two main questions:
(1) How do you extend if your lo is waking up happy? He just smiles at me for a while and then gets angrier and angrier as he realizes that he isn't getting out of bed. If he wakes unhappy, I have had some success extending but not the vast majority of times when he wakes happy.
(2) If he really is just a 45-minute napper, how can I adapt the schedule so he is eating less often?
I have been struggling for nearly 2 months now so I could really use some help!