My daughter is just over 9 months old and weighs about 16 pounds now (she has always been small) and has never been a great milk drinker. She has been on breastmilk since birth and around 5 months of age her milk intake leveled off. I have been pumping and giving her milk in bottles since shortly after birth because I had a scare with her losing weight 3 weeks after birth and have had a touchy milk supply at times. Anyway her intake leveled off well before we started her on solids to about 20 oz a day (she just never would take more than this for me). I dropped her to 4 bottles a day at that time because she just didn't seem to be hungry enough for her bottles - this helped for a little while and then she started to seem less interested in her bottles again.
She eats solids fairly well but her milk intake doesn't seem to depend on solid intake at all. I have just dropped her to 3 bottles a day now because she was refusing the 2nd bottle of the day for several weeks, I tried to increase the volume of each bottle instead. She is now more interested in the bottles again however I can't seem to get her to take more than 5 to 6 ounces at a time EVER. I am worried sick about her low intake all the time but you just can't force a baby to drink when they don't want to. Anyway between the milk I can get her to drink and what I manage to "hide" in her cereal she takes about 16 to 18 oz a day. the same amount as she was taking with 4 bottles a day really but now she drinks it more readily with the bottles spaced further apart. Since she turned 8 months I have been giving her yogurt and cheese and so she also now takes in about 4 oz of additional dairy also - but is that ok?? Someone please tell me that her intake is fine for her age and size so I can relax and stop stressing out so much

Our current routine looks like this:
Awake 630
E 700 (5 to 6 oz bottle)
E 800 (breakfast - cereal w breastmilk, prunes, toast & creamcheese)
S 930 (she has just started dropping this to 40 mins as she gets older)
A 10:10
E11:30 (chicken and veggies, yogurt)
E 1:30 (5 to 6 oz bottle)
S 1:45
A3:30/4:00 ish
E 5:00 (meat & veggies, yogurt, cheese)
Bathtime and bottle (5 to 6 oz) @ 7:00pm
S 7:30pm