I also would never sugest " there's your dinner,,eat that or do without" sort of thing,,,, I understand that some lo's are diff eaters to others,,,, but in my experince,,,and I'm not saying that this is the case in all,,,, I say its sometimes the way that they are fed.
My friend with the 13 and 8 year old,,,,,the ones who you can't take out for anything to eat/ feed in your hose because they are so picky,,,, it is her fault. When they were small she never offered them fruit,veg,pasta,,pizza,,fish,, because she didn't like them,,,,she made them sausage and smiley faces,,, ok for a small kid yes,,,,,but for a 13 year old boy no. He has no energy,,,,he has been knocked back from a football team ( as in for a full time place) because of his eating habbits,,,,their not intrested in a boy who can't eat to fule his body to do exersice.
My friend has a lo at 19 months,,,,who will only eat baby jars,,,because she has only ever offered her lo babyjars,,,,,
That was the point I was making,,,,, I gave my kids what we ate,,, if we had curry they had curry,,,if we had stew we had stew,,,if I have a sandwich for luch they fot a sandwich,,,,,, now there has been things I know my los will not eat,,,like they HATE mince,,,,so if were having mince,,I put in a pizza because I know they dnt like it,,, no fuss,,,,no saying " take that or go to bed hungry" ,,,if my kids don't eat their dinner,,,,for amn off night what we all have,,,,,or because they just dnt feel like it,,,,,they can have tea or toast,,,,
My point is again,,,,,that sometimes,,, some people foster bad eating habbits into their children,,that their children then take into later life,,,, and I really don't see the need in starting the whole making meals for myself and dh,,and then making meals for my dd's,,,,, what if one dd wants pasta and one wants pizza,,,do I make 3 seperate meals?
I really dnt think the person who started this thread was looking for a debate,, nor do I wish to start one either,,,but we can only pass on advice that we know from experience,,,,,and if my experience is diff from another member or two,,,I dnt feel it should be slated or put across as though we are giving missleading advice ,,,, the great thing about this site is the difference in opinions,, some that we all can learn from,,, we all should remember this