I am a little confused by something i read in tracy hogg's first book, secrets of the baby whisperer and the interview that was posted on here.
In the chapter on sleep in the book tracy notes to make sure not to pat them to sleep as they will then have a sleep association with patting. i.e. to pat them till theyre calm but awake.
In the interview however she says she continues patting and shushing as she puts them into the cot and continues well up to 7-10 minutes to ensure they are safely into dreamland?
which is it?
does it perhaps depend on the age?