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3yo extremely resistant to BBB...
« on: December 29, 2011, 20:33:15 pm »
...and not only is he getting too tall for his crib, but his crib mattress is falling apart!  :-\

I am not one to make changes for the sake of it, and Dylan sleeps like a champ in his crib (11h nights, a 1-2h nap during the day), but he can no longer stretch out in his crib without his toes touching the bottom.  That alone wouldn't be enough for me to force the issue (because it's clearly not bothering him given how well he's sleeping) but his crib mattress is literally falling apart at all four corners.  The piping around the edge is ripping away and is exposing the grey padding between the cover and the springs, which is starting to fall apart also.  The fitted sheets are keeping it together okay, but he's over 30 pounds and he likes to bounce and play so I'm sure that won't work forever.

He's had the BBB in his room for nearly a year, and he's always had the option of sleeping there but we never pushed it.  He chose the bedding (purple and pink Dora, lol  ::)), he plays on it, we read bedtime stories laying on it, but when it comes time for sleep he always chooses his crib.  Ever since the mattress started falling apart I've tried to gently persuade him (tucking him into the BBB after stories results in "No momma, I want to sleep in my crib!", saying "are you sure you don't want to sleep in your BBB just like mommy and daddy" results in a firm toddler NO!) but he has never slept in his BBB.  In fact, other than the cot he naps on at daycare, the only time he's ever slept in a bed was when he was hospitalized.  He's never slept in our bed, never been away... (jeez, we're boring!)

What to do?  I was talking to DH about maybe ditching the BBB that we have (which was really inexpensive) and buying a daybed instead?  So it's more crib-like?  I'm also willing to do new bedding again if it would help re-excite him.  DH suggested getting Dylan to help disassemble the crib one day so that it's no longer an option, but I don't know if I like that idea as it seems almost like we're tricking him :-\

Anyone else have a crib-lover? 
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Re: 3yo extremely resistant to BBB...
« Reply #1 on: December 29, 2011, 20:47:08 pm »
Me!!  Maeve loved her cot and I loved her being in it!   If it were me i would pick a date and talk to him about it and on that day do as your DH suggests and take the crib apart.  If I had left it to M and even bought a new bed she would have been all for it but when it came to crunch point she would STILL have chosen the crib!  So if D really loves it that much it may actually take it not being there to get him to the BBB.  Once the cot was gone M went to the BGB no bother at all.  But given the choice, it would have always been the cot as that is what she was used to and preferred at that point.

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Re: 3yo extremely resistant to BBB...
« Reply #2 on: December 29, 2011, 21:31:50 pm »
Thanks Shiv :-*

My only fear about disassembling the crib is that Dylan LOVES to help daddy build - if it involves tools Dylan is chomping at the bit to do whatever he is allowed! I just felt like it would be taking advantage of that to disassemble to crib and then he might feel tricked that night at bedtime, kwim? But maybe talking about it for a couple days before will be enough to prepare him. And I am off work from Jan 1-5 so I would be there for all sleeps to ease the transition a bit, so maybe the timing would be good if we start talking about it now.

Thanks again! xx
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Re: 3yo extremely resistant to BBB...
« Reply #3 on: December 29, 2011, 21:48:05 pm »
Both mine went thru a phase, just after introducing the BGB, of sleeping on the floor NEXT TO the bed. ::) J slept right on the floor, Nat on a blanket, and both girls had blankets to pull over them. When they got too big for those blankets to cover them, they moved to their beds without complaint or issue. And right now, Natalie is using a sleeping bag full-time - we've disassembled her bed to give her more room in her room anyway, at her request. Might he sleep on the floor?

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Re: 3yo extremely resistant to BBB...
« Reply #4 on: December 29, 2011, 22:03:33 pm »
I'm not sure, tbh... He never has, but that doesn't mean he wouldn't. Definitely good as another option! :)
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