Than you for all your replies! She has been EBF until now. I've been eliminating dairy, soy, gluten, eggs and nuts from my diet to keep feeding her. It is insane really. I became really determined as everyone told me to stop BF and go hypoallergenic formula. Now at 13mos I have to add some foods back to my diet even if she stays restricted for the next year. She wouldn't take formula now. I am starting to mix EBM with hemp milk for her midday feed. She is totally refusing it.
Given all the options I think Hemp is our best and really only alternative for now. Oat milk won't work because of gluten ?? Almond risky with nuts. Coconut problematic in the past. As long as hemp not bad to give to children I think I have to go with it / I can't keep BF for too much longer.