So an update. We reduced milk down- but I think after recalculating where he was at before, I think it was really 30 oz of milk- yikes!
So we are at 4 oz at morning wake up, 6 oz with breakfast and lunch then 7 oz at bedtime. Which is 23. its not 18-20 but I am having a hard time cutting out a few more oz. Up till today no change at all in his eating- still a few bites each meal. Yesterday, he had some goldish- well alot actually. He kept coming back for more. Today he ate a really good amount! He stole a bunch of my dads yogurt with berries for lunch.I just hope its not a fluke- since he does tend to have 1-2 really good eating days every few weeks. I also am about half and half pediasure and milk for extra nutrients he isnt getting with good. I might see how it goes in a few days and do 5oz instead of 6 for 2 meals but the morning milk I am having a hard time cutting down- I figure with being asleep and no milk for 11 hours he has to be starving. So we are working on it, with *hopeful* results? Hoping?