Thanks ladies! Just checked in after a long vacation from the net.
Update, we are exclusively BFing successfully, and even refusing bottles which makes me a touch sad but way more happy than anything! Reflux is a bit better as long as I keep diary to a minimal, however I'm going to bring her back and demand treatment. Seen a few youtube videos of refluxers, and my DD is as uncomfortable as all of them IMHO. One vid made me super sad because if the LO wasn't a boy, it could of been my Lara squirming, grunting and groaning in it.