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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #45 on: March 03, 2012, 01:23:04 am »
I just remember something else my LC had me do when we had issues with latch. She had me work on latching in the bath. He did latch better in water. Maybe its worth a try? Nice warm bath with mama? Might relax both of you :)


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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #46 on: March 04, 2012, 02:29:32 am »
Ali, thank you!  I torture my kids with pictures.  :) 

EnzoMama, I did take a bath with him and that was the 2nd time he ever latched.  Then he never did again. :(  Thank you tho!  I even tried again in the bath and he wanted nothing to do with it. 


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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #47 on: March 07, 2012, 19:57:26 pm »
How are you getting on, Nicole?
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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #48 on: March 10, 2012, 16:50:27 pm »
How are you getting on, Nicole?

Thank you for asking!  I just came on to update.  Luke is 24 hours bottle free!!!!!  He's latching on the shield, but it's a start! He's not fighting it and staying on for somewhere between 15-20 minutes.  I don't know what it was that got him to, but I am thrilled.  I did a second craniosacral therapy last week.  I don't know if it's coincidence or not.  I have a 3rd appt Monday, but think I am going to cancel as it's 40 minutes away and I know he'd have to eat.  I'm not comfortable bfing him out yet as I lie somewhat back to do it and it's somewhat difficult for me to get a comfortable position for him to latch on my right breast since I'm right handed.   And I don't want to give a bottle of expressed milk for fear he won't get back on me.  This was a long road!  He has been great with it.  No crying or problem at all.  It's like a miracle. I don't know what caused the change, but am so happy I stuck with it.  It's amazing how much better it is on all levels.  I love the feeling of directly nourishing him.  I love that I haven't pumped in over 24 hours.  I love that I don't have to worry about making bottles.  I love that I don't have to clean bottles and my breast pump parts.  Most of all I just love being close to him.  

He did latch 4 times (same feeding 2 times) on my direct breast.  When I offered it again tho, he wouldn't.  So I know that there's hope that one day I'll do away with the shield!

One question.  In the morning I usually pump a lot, between 11-12 ounces.  He ate at 5:40 and 7:40 and 9:45 this morning.  My breasts are still quite heavy.  Should I pump out a little?  I know my body will adjust in time, but I know he hasn't drank 12 ounces from me.  It was definitely very uncomfortable at 5:40, but now just a bit uncomfortable.

Thank you all SO much for your help.  I appreciate it more than you know.  Just coming on here and seeing a response from someone gave me hope.  Thank you!  
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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #49 on: March 10, 2012, 16:56:58 pm »
Oh Nicole that is wonderful!!! If you're uncomfortable maybe has express a little bit off, but you want the flow to be good for him so he doesn't need any reason to think taking the breast is too much hard work!! Congrats you're an amazing mum xxxx
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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #50 on: March 10, 2012, 18:06:49 pm »
Oh my goodness! So happy for you! You made my day.

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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #51 on: March 10, 2012, 19:26:03 pm »
Wonderful news! You are amazing!
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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #52 on: March 10, 2012, 19:36:34 pm »
Oh, happy tears here!  I'm so pleased to read such an amazing update! ;D

Like Charli said, do what you need to feel comfortable :)
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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #53 on: March 10, 2012, 21:30:33 pm »
Oh I cannot believe it! I am so excited for you. :) :) :) When I saw you had updated this thread I was hoping for good news but was so pleased to see it. That is really fab.

I agree you should avoid the bottle for a good while.

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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #54 on: March 10, 2012, 23:21:39 pm »
Excellent job, mama! You are SUCH an inspiration. I think I may have to bookmark this thread and send it to friends who are having trouble breastfeeding. You managed to start an informational discussion and I am so pleased to hear good news from you.  ;D ;D ;D

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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #55 on: March 11, 2012, 02:38:58 am »
Woohoo!!  :)

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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #56 on: March 11, 2012, 17:54:41 pm »
You girls are seriously so kind to be so happy for me!  He is still bottle free well over 48 hours! 
I'm going to put my pump in a closet today and hope I don't see it for a LONG time!  lol 

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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #57 on: March 11, 2012, 18:18:33 pm »
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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #58 on: March 11, 2012, 19:45:59 pm »
;D  Yay!
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Re: 6 weeks old and still won't latch
« Reply #59 on: March 11, 2012, 20:18:36 pm »
:) ;D :'( :-*
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