Congratulations on your new little man!
Have you read any of the Baby Whisperer books or the FAQs here on the site? They will answer most of your questions with at more detail than I will get into here.
In short, BW is very baby focused - we definitely have routines in order to give our los a predictable series of events, but it's always based on our babies and their cues. There is no strict schedule per say. I don't know whether your breast or bottle feeding, but either way you can expect night feeds to continue for quite some time yet. Some lucky moms get babies who sleep through at 2mo, but often babies need night feeds for much longer than that. Just think that baby's only job right now is to grow - he needs constant calories to do that!
You can begin to teach independent sleep now using shh/pat (see FAQ for details) but pu/pd is not recommended for babies younger than 4mo.
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