Have you tried hemp milk? There's also rice milk, but I don't think it's recommended for very young lo's.
When I transitioned Dylan to soy milk I had to gradually mix it to get him to accept it. I'm on my iPod so tough to post links, but the exact method I used is in my breast to bottle FAQ. I wonder if you could do something like that for her neocate? Pick a milk and gradually mix it in?
And if she cries for her milk in the morning could you not still offer it? She's young yet, maybe offer a smaller amount or offer it in a cup rather than the bottle? We did a morning bottle (just 4oz) for Dylan until he was just over 2.