If you go, plan on at least a week or two of mayhem while she settles in. Honestly if I was going overseas (though that'd be an exercise from Australia), I'd go for 2-3 months min at that age so as to enjoy at least part of it.
When L started daycare, he slept no more than 45min for the first 4 months, never 1.5hr til 5 months after he started - just too overstimulating
Thank you Bec. Travelling from Croatia to States is also exercise especially if you are heading to midwest
. My DH could get max 1 month off (and we have a dog) so he would go back and I am still not sure do I have strength to stay with her additional 2 months (my DH would be stressed out with the third month
, because of his DD not me
. In addition we are talking about the daycare with foreign language ... I started to teach her sign language...
Agreed!! You know my thoughts on that... When DS was about 14 months, I finally heard for the first time that I am a good mum and I do know DS well. They have come around. We had a great relationship before kids and it was a bit rocky for a while but its getting better as L gets older.
I will never heard these words
. We had great relationship before we got the dog, God they started to interfere that I could not believe it
... Things escalated just before I knew I was pregnant and then peaked during my pregnancy (you could just imagine what happened when they found out - actually my MIL) that their (HER) grand kid was on the way... and we do not live with them... ok this is not confession topic
Tweetie, I'm pretty sure DH's family also thinks I'm a "dragon." They also are not good at adjusting their timetable around our LO. Last week they showed up at 7 to visit her knowing that her bedtime is 7:30 and would not hand her over to me despite being told that she needed to get to bed. Needless to say, BT did not go well. I've got no advice on travelling overseas with your LO since the farthest my babe has gone is an hour from home, but listen to your instincts - you know yourself and your baby best.
I thought maybe I was overreacting by thinking it took days for DD to get back on track from an adjustment. Reading that others experience the same fallout makes me realize I'm not imagining it.
Right now we are visiting my parents and it is not going well to say the least! After a week of STTN she's back to NW, multiple resettlings after I put her to bed, and short naps. The good part is that my mom respects how hard it is when DD is off routine and helps out a lot with her (even taking care of her so I can have a nap ).
Because some issues in the past (read above)
I do not have problems that DH's parents would just appear (that would be their style) but I know what are you talking about. We do not accept visits in the afternoon A time (we did and end up with screaming and freaking out nights, after which we had 2-3 days of AP - Baby Bjorn and hours and hours of walking outside - I was dead after waking from the night ). We said that visit time is usual between 12 - 3 pm, but need to be checked the same day depending on DD sleeping
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When my DD was 3 months old we went regularly to my parents' weekend house and she slept great there and enjoyed (half an hour drive)... I do not know how that would look like now.
At this time point except NW, resettling
I am dealing with two things:
- she does not want to be in the car seat anymore (not even 10 or 15 min) - it is disaster (she loved it in the past)
-another thing - when I go out with her (Baby Bjorn or stroller) she fall a sleep very fast - it is good when she needs it but now I would like to go out between naps so she gets some fresh air. Lately we do not go outside very often or go when she needs to sleep..