Hey Marcia, sorry for the late reply. It's been super busy on these boards as of late! And now I don't get as much time to see to them all with whatever is going on with DD.
I had what you were describing for a good couple of weeks. Really distressed crying, if I went in quickly I could ssh/rub back off to sleep. She has been really bunged up and snotty like every time she is teething so I'm unsure if it's teething, SR or both tbh. I do think she's due for a slight push in the morning A time though as she's faffing about before her nap. She's never really done this before, only for 30 mins at BT irrelevant of what time I put her down. Never solved that one since we hit the 2-1.
If I remember rightly your LO is slightly late with his teething isn't he? Correct me if I'm wrong, please. Boys do tend to be later than girls but it does sound like teeth are jumping around down there with all those WU's.
Coincidently with us, and I don't want to jinx it, but the NW's have gotten a little better this week. I've tried to keep to the same nap time and length. Sometimes I have to wake her, sometimes she wakes early. I have found I need to tire her out more int he morning, such as swimming or soft play to try and get a decent nap in. But then 2 canines on the lower have popped through so it may be that?
Also, yesterday we were out for the day and she only managed a 30 mins car nap all day. Put her to bed as soon as we got back (after BT routine), she fell asleep in 10 mins and only one really quick NW at 1.30am. Pulled a 12-hr night!!
So, in short I really haven't a clue hun, but I'm in the same boat and sending you tonnes of ((hugs)) xx