So my top advisors, we are a few weeks on and making progress! Yipeeee!
I tried the food first approach for a week or so with some success and now we have swapped back to food an hour after milk. I think it took a really long time for her stomach to settle from the sickness bug. Now we have 3 fruits and 2 veg that she will readily eat. Gradually introducing her to more favors but taking it slow.
Thanks for the support, you are stars!