Hello ladies. I am desperate. My lo is just over 6 months old. She started sleeping through the night months ago waking only between 4 and 5 for a feed. Her naps have been horrible always. Everyone said that at 6 months they start to sort themselves out with day sleep. Well shortly before 6 months she was able to transition or put herself back to sleep for a few days. Yay!!
Since those few days all her sleep has gone wonky.
She wakes up after around 35 min during naps and can't put herself back to sleep. Sometimes I can get her back and sometimes not. She needs the sleep as she wakes up crabby, crying, red eyes. If I hold her she will fall back to sleep so she's obviously still tired. So help is needed here. I've extended A times, no difference. She's not overstimulated I make sure of that. No change of routine.
Now for night sleep. She's begun waking at 3 for a feed. She'd then fidgety and waking constantly until up time. I have patted and shhhed and pu/pd. Nothing works. Right now she's sleeping on my boob after being fussy since 5:45 (it's now7). She's exhausted since she's not ready to be up before 7. So how do u get her to actually sleep and not up every 15 min from 5 am onwards. I also would like her to sleep until at least 7 (seems to be her actual up time). I want to get back to the gym and would go from 5:30-7. I want to dream feed at 5 to make sure she's good until 7 but since she's so fussy she actually wakes up sO it's not a dream feed and I have to fight to get her back to sleep.
I'm exhausted mentally and emotionally from these issues. I've been pu/pd and Patton and shhhhing for MONTHS now and my back is shot from leaning over her crib and hands are raw (obviously not really) and I feel like crying and worse I started considering CIO which I don't believe in. Nothing I try seems to work.
Please help with all these issues.