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Offline Lazysusan

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9.5mo naps all over the shop...
« on: August 07, 2012, 07:28:00 am »
Hi all. Hoping you can offer some advice.

DD2 is 9.5 months and for the last month or so, we have had some pretty ordinary naps. She was waking at 30 mins or 45 mins, so a little while back, I started to push her A time to 4 hours. I saw an improvement but she rarely did more than 1 hr 15.

She has recently learned to crawl, which may have been part of the problem. Now that she has mastered crawling, I have moved her back to 3 hr 45 mins A time (thinking that she is moving more) but things still aren't great. Plus, I'm finding it really hard to put her down for her afternoon nap (even if her am nap wasn't great). I'm often APOPing that nap.

Am I heading for 2-1? Should I be upping the A time again and even further?

She goes to sleep independently. Nights have been pretty good of late, with her only waking once (she is BF and I do a NF). My big problem with the naps is the only way to resettle her when she wakes early is on me. Which is fine when I am on my own (enforced sitting!) but not so easy when I have DD1 at home...

Here is today's routine so far to give you an idea of what is happening...

6.15am: WU
10am: Sleep for one hour
3pm: Sleep (I tried to get her into bed at 2.45pm but it took me 15 minutes to get her to sleep and had to resort to APing her). She slept for 25 minutes and woke up, wide awake. Eventually I got her back to sleep on me and she slept for  another 40 minutes or so, waking at 4.15pm
7pm: Bed

Whaddya reckon? Any suggestions?

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Re: 9.5mo naps all over the shop...
« Reply #1 on: August 08, 2012, 01:38:33 am »
Heya, I'm thinking after the 1 hr nap your LO may be OT after 4 hrs A time.
Does your LO wake on her own generally happy after the 45 mins/1 hr am nap?

If so I would try an A after that of closer to 3 hrs and see if it helps.

You could be getting close to the 2-1 we hit it around 9-10 mths. Here is some info.what Doyou think?
http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=95670.0
http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?topic=41952.0
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Re: 9.5mo naps all over the shop...
« Reply #2 on: August 10, 2012, 10:55:01 am »
Hi Sara. Many thanks for your response. Sorry for my lag - we have been without Internet access for a couple of days and I have realized the extent of my addiction!

Today, DD2 had a morning nap of 1 hr 10. I grid to put her down 3 hr 15 after that (not quite your suggested 3 hrs, unfortunately) and she fought it again. But got her down at 3 hr 30 and she slept 1 hr 10 again! So a good day.

Her A times have always been high so I'm sure we are getting ready for 2-1...

Question: how do you think I can lengthen one of those naps? When she was really little, she used to always do a long afternoon nap but there has been no consistency in the past few months. I'd be thrilled if I could get one decent nap and one catnap. Do you think she can handle a longer A time in the morning? Should I just give it a go and see??? What would you suggest 4 hr 15 or more???

Thanks again for your help. You have offered advice to me before and it is much appreciated again!

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Re: 9.5mo naps all over the shop...
« Reply #3 on: August 10, 2012, 10:58:20 am »
Oh and I forgot to answer your question. Yes, she wakes from that 1 hour nap happy, happy. Thank you!