Hello ladies, just wanted to update so far!
After finally going to sleep last night she woke at 1.15am (resettled after 30 mins) and then again at 4.15am, took till 5.45am that time
. Not like her to have 2 NW, (she rarely has 1) but guess its the OT monster!.
I let her sleep again until 8.30am when she woke very happy
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Nap at 12 (went down sooo easily, chatted for a couple of minutes and then asleep
till 2.30pm
So did bath at 5.30pm and she was asleep by 6pm
. She had a short WU at 7pm but I was able to settle her within about 20 mins and there was none of the extreme screaming thank goodness
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Soooo we will see what the night brings. I am fully expecting her to wake at least once, but hope she will settle more easily.
I do think we may be finally catching up on her sleep, so unless she has an awful night I am going to wake her at 7am tomorrow if she's sleep and try to go back to 2 naps
.........although I am now pretty confused as to what she needs!
The 3.5hr A time seems to be spot on, but is that because she's OT?
I think that I used to let her stay awake for longer, up to 4.5-5hrs as she never seemed to show that she was tired. This has probably been why she has gradually got more and more OT, combined with the really late bedtimes she has had recently!
Before all of this started (at around 8 months ish) she was having a 45 min am nap and a 1.5-2 hr afternoon nap.......Trying to fit in 2 decent naps with the A time we need will just result in a later bedtime?
She is responding really well to 1 long nap at the moment, but that is because her day starts late and finishes early!............getting very confused..........it was sooo much simpler with my DS!
Zacsmumme, Skatty and Smurfette, thank you so much for your fab advice so far.........you have kept me focused and positive