My kids nursery does tea at 4pm and i usd to do a 'dinner for all of us after nursery, but it was a real rush and they were always too tired to eat. Now we do supper at 6ish, which is more of a snack. On home days i do tea around 5.30pm maybe 6pm at the latest and do a small afternoon snack. This means we can all eat together some days. Xx