That's exactly what I want, but she has terrible NWs (I posted another issue about this in the sleep forums if you want to read about it there). So, sometimes she gets up at 8, but most of the time it is some other time than 8, both earlier or later. For example, this morning she got up at 5:15 (after only sleeping 8 hours with a NW at 3:00). I tried to get her back to sleep like I always do, but she was not having it so we got up and I fed her. Based on that, bedtime tonight would be 6ish and that is too early. Even on a good night she was never slept longer than 10 hrs and 4 am is too early. I am guessing that all of this is related and I will move oatmeal to earlier in the day.
So for tonight, what would you do? Feed her at 6 and then try to top her off at 8 and put her to bed? She is the type of baby who will not eat unless she is hungry which is why I am apprehensive about feeding her only 2 hours apart. She is like clockwork - every 4 hours. What do you think? Maybe skimp on the bottle at 6 so she will eat at 8?