Hi Erin,
Feel like I'm juggling you on two boards now. Sorry about that but everything's so interlinked. Thanks so much for your response.
As you know from the Naps board I am trying to tweak my routine around my school runs so hopefully that might also help with the NW's as you suggest.
Last night we had an NW at 3.20 when I fed and then another at 5.50 - only 2 1/2 hours apart and I know I'd said I wasn't going to feed unless it was at least four hours but I did feed. Aaaargh!!!
I was thinking I need to get LO to be able to sleep until my preferred WU time of 7.15 to work around the school runs, so I just chose the easier way - feeding rather than settling. On the plus side he did go back to sleep and needed to be woken at 7.15. On the negative side, here I am trying to reduce the night feeds if possible but I seem to be adding to/reinforcing them. Annoyed at myself but also torn between the importance of a later wake up and not feeding at night when LO's not properly hungry.